A supportive community is a must-have when you’re raising a child with special needs.
And while your friends and family can certainly be there for you in some aspects, there’s simply no substitute for connecting with other parents who are on a similar path.
These parents will be able to grasp what you’re going through in a way that your other friends simply can’t. They’ll understand the daily challenges you endure, because they endure them, too. You won’t always have to explain how you’re feeling, because they’ll already know.
To get started, here are three ways to connect and develop lasting relationships with other parents of children with special needs:
- Join a support group. A support group is ideal because everyone in attendance is on the same path. They are all feeling isolated and alone, and they are all looking for support. To find a group in your area, ask your child’s school for a referral or search online. Once you find a support group you feel comfortable with, I encourage you to attend each meeting. Consistency is key to building lasting relationships.
- Arrange play dates with other children with special needs. Ask your child’s school to put you in touch other parents of children with special needs, and arrange a play date. As your children play together, you and the parents can bond as well.
- Participate in school-sponsored groups. Take advantage of school-sponsored organizations designed to support parents of children with special needs. For example, District 15 has SPARK: Special Education Parents Accessing Resources and Knowledge. It meets monthly, and is a prime opportunity to get involved and meet other parents. Ask the school administration about your district’s organizations. If none are available, it’s a great opportunity to start one!
